Are you staring at an invitation and wondering what’s a better way to ask people to let you know whether they’ll come? You’re not alone. Many hosts feel uneasy with the plain “RSVP” and want wording that fits their vibe. Good news: as soon as you open this article, you’ll have plenty of phrases to choose from — no more scratching your head.
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Simple alternatives to RSVP
When you want to keep things straightforward and easy for everyone, try phrases like:
- Please let us know if you can come
- Kindly respond to your invitation
- We’d like your response, please
- Let us hear from you about attending
- Will you be joining us?
- Please tell us if you’ll attend
- We await your reply
- Your reply is requested
- Let us know your plans
- Please confirm your attendance
- Would you be able to come?
- Please indicate whether you’ll attend
- Kindly tell us if we should expect you
- Will you be present?
- Please advise if you’ll join
- We’d appreciate your response
- Let us know yes or no
- Please respond at your earliest convenience
- Your attendance confirmation is requested
- Please let us know your intention
- Kindly inform us if you will attend
- We hope to see you; please let us know
- Would you mind letting us know?
- Please reply by the date indicated
- We need your reply by [date]
- Please communicate if you’ll be there

- Kindly confirm your presence
- Are you able to make it?
- Please let us have your decision
- Would love to know if you’ll come
Slightly formal alternatives to RSVP
If you’re going for something a little more polished, these could work:
- The favour of a reply is requested
- Your response is solicited
- Kindly respond by [date]
- We request your reply in advance
- Your attendance is requested; please advise
- Please respond at your earliest convenience
- Your reply will be appreciated
- Kindly let us know of your intention
- We await your reply with pleasure
- Please indicate your availability
- The honour of your reply is requested
- We request confirmation of your attendance
- Your kind response is requested
- Please confirm by [date]
- We would be grateful for your reply
- Your acknowledgment is requested
- Please advise whether you will attend
- We look forward to your reply
- Kindly inform us of your decision
- Please be so kind as to respond
- Your presence is awaited; please reply
- We request your kind confirmation
- Please notify us of your intent to attend
- We anticipate your response
- Your reply by [date] would be appreciated
- We request the pleasure of your reply
- Kindly send your response to [contact]
- We look forward to your attendance; kindly confirm
- Please revert with your decision
- Your confirmation is awaited
Casual and friendly alternatives to RSVP
Want to keep things relaxed and approachable? Here are some options:

- Let us know if you’re in
- Tell us if you’ll join the fun
- Hope to see you—please let us know
- Will you be there?
- Drop us a quick yes or no
- Can you make it?
- Give us a shout if you’re coming
- Let us know what you think
- Hope you’ll be with us—confirm please
- Are you coming?
- Let us know your plans for the day
- Please tell us if you’ll drop by
- Will you join the party?
- Let us know so we can save you a spot
- Sending a quick yes or no would help
- Please respond so we know the count
- Swing by? Let us know
- Looking forward to having you—please let us know
- Be there or miss the fun—just kidding! Let us know
- Help us plan—please tell us if you’re coming
- Joining the gang? Please say yes or no
- Can we count on you?
- Let us know whether you’ll show up
- Quick reply would be awesome
- Tell us if you’ll be part of it
- Will you make it?
- Please say if you’ll be with us
- You in? Let us know
- Send us your answer
- Let us plan for you—please respond
- Will see you there? Confirm please
Creative and playful alternatives to RSVP
If you want something fun and memorable, these might spark ideas:
- RSVP with a smile
- Give us your thumbs up or thumbs down
- Your “Yes” or “No” please
- Count us in? Let us know
- Will you dance with us? Let us know
- Hop on board? Please reply
- Mark your calendar, and send your reply
- Are you coming to the party? Confirm now
- Be part of our story—let us know
- Ready to celebrate? Tell us yes or no
- Save your seat—just tell us if you’re coming
- Will you join the fun ride?
- Let us know if you’ll bring your sparkle
- Let us know if you’ll be part of the magic
- Hop in the guest list—please reply
- Are we seeing you there?
- Joining the crew? Let us know
- Make our day by showing up—please confirm

- Tell us if you’ll be there to make memories
- We’re counting on you—please send your reply
- Will you say yes to the invite?
- Confirm your attendance so we can party
- Be there or be square—just let us know
- Are you ready for it? Reply yes or no
- We’ll save you a dance—just tell us if you’ll be there
- Will you join the cheers? Let us know
- Help us make it unforgettable—reply please
- Will your name be on the guest list?
- Let us know if you’ll join the fun zone
- Be part of this story—reply please
Email or digital invite alternatives to RSVP
When you’re sending invites via email or online, these work nicely:
- Please reply via [link]
- Click to confirm your attendance
- Fill out the following form to let us know
- Let us know online whether you’re coming
- Respond by visiting [website]
- Confirm your attendance electronically
- Please submit your response
- Click “Yes” or “No” at [link]
- Please let us know via email if you can attend
- Use the digital reply card to respond
- Kindly respond through the RSVP button
- Let us know your plans via the online form
- Please reply by [date] using the link
- Let us know your attendance by submitting your answer
- Confirm online so we can plan better
- Please notify us by email whether you’ll join
- Let us know your decision on the website
- Click here to confirm your presence
- Please complete the online RSVP by [date]
- Fill in your reply in the e-invite
- Your quick digital response is appreciated
- Please respond via the link provided
- Use this form to tell us if you’re able to come
- Online confirmation requested
- Let us know your attendance via the RSVP button
- Please email your decision by [date]
- Confirm your spot online
- Respond electronically at your convenience
- Please send your reply through the invite platform
- Let us know online whether we’ll see you
- Your online confirmation helps us plan
Alternatives to RSVP for “Decline or Accept” invites
When you want wording that covers both yes and no replies clearly:
- Accepts or regrets only
- Please let us know if you can join or if you are unable
- Kindly answer yes or no
- Will you attend or not? Please reply
- Please confirm whether you will be present or not
- Let us know whether you’ll join or not
- Kindly tell us if you’re coming or unable
- Indicate your attendance status
- Please advise if you will attend or not
- Choose “yes” or “no” and reply
- Will we see you there? Let us know yes or no
- Please reply with either way
- Tell us yes, we’ll be there or sorry, we can’t
- Let us know your decision either way
- Confirm yes or no for our planning
- Please indicate your availability and reply
- Are you attending or unable to attend?
- Please send your acceptance or regret
- Kindly state your attendance status
- Respond with your choice: attending / not attending
- Please check yes or no and return this card
- Let us know your choice by [date]
- Accept or decline—please inform us
- We await your answer: yes or no
- Please update us if you will attend or not
- Will you join us or will you send regrets?
- Please answer “yes” if you’ll attend or “no” if you won’t
- Let us know your decision by [date]
- Please reply whether you can make it or not
- Confirm your attendance status at your earliest
Event-specific alternatives to RSVP
If your event has a theme or you want to tailor the wording, try these:
- RSVP to our gala by [date]
- Confirm your seat at the table
- Let us know if you’ll join the celebration
- Please reply to the adventure
- Join us or send your regrets
- Tell us whether you’ll be part of the evening
- Confirm your place on the guest list
- Let us know if you’ll be there to honour us
- Will you be part of the milestone? Please reply
- Please advise if you’ll be in attendance
- Confirm your spot at the event
- Help us count you in or out
- Will your name be on the guest list? Reply please
- Join the fun—let us know
- Confirm if you’ll be with us for the launch
- Please reply if you’ll attend the fundraiser
- Indicate your attendance at the ceremony
- Will you be with us for the award night? Reply please
- Let us know your presence at the reunion
- Confirm whether you’ll join the class gathering
- Let us know if you’ll cheer with us
- Will you be there for the big reveal? Please reply
- Please indicate your attendance at the workshop
- Confirm your place at the conference
- Let us know your presence at the team dinner
- Will you help us mark the occasion? Reply please
- Please advise if you’ll attend the opening night
- Confirm if you’ll join our festive day
- Let us know if you’ll be part of the ceremony
- Will you attend the launch party? Please reply
